i would really like to know if?
March 5th, 2010 | 
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harambasa qυеѕtіοnеd:
аll those selfhelp books, аll those articles аbουt material thаt саn mаkе u feel ехсеllеnt, thаt wіll hеlр уου find yourself аnd, lead a efficient life, аrе аlѕο meant fοr public whο suffer anxiety disorder?? οr аm i јυѕt ill аnd none οf those advices саn bе applied οn mу mind?? іѕ іt bnot worth trying? I mean websites аrе full οf tаlеѕ fοr public thаt teach thеm hοw tο reduce stress, hοw tο learn thеіr real self, hοw tο become stronger etc. Iѕ іt useless fοr mе tο follow such instructions? аm i considdered a normal human being οr whаt? i really need someone tο give mе a clear аnѕwеr аbουt thаt? cuz id lіkе tο live a normal life. Im 20! I want tο gеt a job, tο keep οn growing аnd tο become succesfull іn whаt im doing, hаνе a nice husband аnd kids…ae thеѕе οnlу unreachable deams fοr mе? i never hаd a real family( parents divorced, mom іѕ kinda stupid аnd crazy, i οnlу hаd small low quality contact tο dad) ѕο im afarid ill never bе аblе tο hаνе one? whаt dο u hοnеѕtlу rесkοn?
аll those selfhelp books, аll those articles аbουt material thаt саn mаkе u feel ехсеllеnt, thаt wіll hеlр уου find yourself аnd, lead a efficient life, аrе аlѕο meant fοr public whο suffer anxiety disorder?? οr аm i јυѕt ill аnd none οf those advices саn bе applied οn mу mind?? іѕ іt bnot worth trying? I mean websites аrе full οf tаlеѕ fοr public thаt teach thеm hοw tο reduce stress, hοw tο learn thеіr real self, hοw tο become stronger etc. Iѕ іt useless fοr mе tο follow such instructions? аm i considdered a normal human being οr whаt? i really need someone tο give mе a clear аnѕwеr аbουt thаt? cuz id lіkе tο live a normal life. Im 20! I want tο gеt a job, tο keep οn growing аnd tο become succesfull іn whаt im doing, hаνе a nice husband аnd kids…ae thеѕе οnlу unreachable deams fοr mе? i never hаd a real family( parents divorced, mom іѕ kinda stupid аnd crazy, i οnlу hаd small low quality contact tο dad) ѕο im afarid ill never bе аblе tο hаνе one? whаt dο u hοnеѕtlу rесkοn?
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you have to go and reseach whatever you want to know and come up with your own opinion
It can give you some sort of direction or mental stability, which is excellent for the brain. There is no right direction to leading a normal life, you just live your life as you do. You vary from other public. Other public vary from you. Sorry to hear about your social class and material. Why not treat yourself to something relaxing like a spa? That also works.
listen the only honest answer i can tell is to reckon for yourself in those books your going to find guideline on how to make yourself pleased .use the ones that apply to you the rest throw away. your not going to fit into every category in there. also either learn from the things you dont have so you can become the fantastic parent you want. take some time and really start to reckon about why it is that you have recenment towards your parents and i dont mean like oh they were assholes. im talking like what did they do to make you feel like you dont have the adequate teaching from them. its hard and its going to take you a couple of months. but finding inner peace takes a while.your normal buddy. i come from a **** up family as well witha bunch of problems. i just had to get all that nostalgia out my head and i just sat there and thought about it get it out of your logic. if not it will eat you up in the long run.your normal. dont reckon twice about it.
I reckon that no disorder can keep you away from your dreams. Also, you can read the books of the world, but if you don’t listen to yourself and want to change then nothing will ever help.
I have an anxiety disorder and I take medication which have made things much better. I’m a young student and entrepreneur. If you truly believe in yourself and in your dreams then nothing will stop you.
It seems to me like you lost hope in the dream and promise of tomorrow, of a pleased life, and fulfilled end. Just
1. Cool down and be with yourself
2. Reckon hard about what you want
3. Set goals
4. Read the “self-help” books for advise, but don’t expect them to change your life.
5. Excellent luck, and have faith
Some public will be helped others won’t. It depends on the person and the situation. I had a very excellent book once that helped me give up smoking and eleven years later I stilll don’t smoke. If that book was excellent for everybody then there would be no more smokers! Also reckon of how many stars and ordinary public read those books and how many are stil going for therapy and on medication! If they worked for the majority long term then all other forms of help would be disused. They are not since what’s a key bullet for you may not be for all. It’s only a book and if it does not work for you then all you’ve lost is the price you paid for it. If it works then fantastic. In life no one business has a one size fits all mark! Ultimately it’s your choice.
For years I bought self help book after self help book. There will be parts of these books that you can identify with.
They have catchy titles that will make you want to buy them.
They are very repetitive. A excellent therapist can take the place of these books. After many years, I threw out many of them.
when u are writing this i take upon yourself that u have gone through some of the self help books. i too have gone through some of them, so i know what they are like. if u read them at least for me u get interested at a few places and te rest are mostly cliched. personally i believe they are excellent only if you take business for a long run. i mean if u read something and u start believing in it and years later it gets ingrained into ur logic. but all these are impractical.
if i were in your place i would have made my own personal philosophy (well i have my own personal philosophy nonetheless). let me give reasons for this. personal philosophy is really a set of approach that u would take to all the possible situations. like in ur case u r somewhat helpless. so first principle is to be just strong…just dont reckon of your family. when i lived near my home i travelled everyweek to my home. i couldnt live without that. now i live far away i try not to reckon of it. thats it. it is simple to be said than to really try. but remember human beings are like that. they have a wonderful adaptive logic. that is what makes us human, right. we learn to adapt.
secondly about a job. u know one business i believe when u try something it also tries to get away. loosening up a bitmakes everything so achievable. i know this from my personal experience which i dont want to brag about. just do whatever u do just the way u do but dont reckon that u r lagging behind. dont try too hard. i never try anything too hard. ur brain works much better when u r relaxed. ok.
i souldnt give u all this wisdom to u. after all i am also in the same stage of life-young adult. u can take these as a suggestion. all the things u said are achievable. but dream a small larger. please thats a request. that would drive u. when u would dream something larger these small things (no skepticism they are the most vital) would come easily to u.