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		<title>By: kris13iam</title>
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		<dc:creator>kris13iam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 09:39:47 +0000</pubDate>
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Lead by example.</description>
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<p>Lead by example.</p>
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		<title>By: Kelly C</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelly C</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Mar 2010 08:54:08 +0000</pubDate>
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My opinion about this is to (1) teach people how to regularly engage in positive self-talk until it is an automatic process--e.g. &quot;I have something to contribute&quot; (2) read motivational literature periodically to refresh ourselves (3)  listen to happy music (4) exercise regularly &amp; have a healthy diet (5) allow yourself to make mistakes..just learn at least 1 thing from them even if it is ooops, I won&#039;t do that again (6) take calculated risks instead of wallowing in indecisiveness (7) pick one thing you like about yourself &amp; admire it daily even if it is your pinky finger (8) avoid people, places, &amp; things in which you leave feeling worse than when you got there even if it is your mother or your job (9) build a relationship with at least 1 other person and nurture it at least weekly, and (10) do things that you enjoy regularly because you deserve it</description>
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<p>My opinion about this is to (1) teach public how to regularly engage in positive self-talk until it is an automatic process&#8211;e.g. &#8220;I have something to say&#8221; (2) read motivational literature periodically to refresh ourselves (3)  listen to pleased composition (4) exercise regularly &#038; have a healthy diet (5) allow yourself to make mistakes..just learn at least 1 business from them even if it is ooops, I won&#8217;t do that again (6) take calculated risks instead of wallowing in indecisiveness (7) pick one business you like about yourself &#038; admire it daily even if it is your pinky finger (8) avoid public, places, &#038; things in which you leave feeling worse than when you got there even if it is your care for or your job (9) build a relationship with at least 1 other person and nurture it at least weekly, and (10) do things that you delight in regularly since you deserve it</p>
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		<title>By: David P</title>
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		<dc:creator>David P</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Mar 2010 03:21:19 +0000</pubDate>
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I like Nicoles answer, but seriously, most of what you are suggesting needs to start early on in life and our parents have the most responsibility in this.  If parents would love children unconditionally, tell them how wonderful they are, hug them, give them the attention they need, etc., it would be wonderful and self-esteem would already be built and there would be few insecurities.  Since this rarely happens it would help if we, as a society, would support others, care about them, be there when needed, give positive feedback, etc.  Many habits and customs would need to change to have this happen.  It doesn&#039;t hurt for just the few who are enlightened to take this upon themselves when they can.  Every little bit helps.</description>
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<p>I like Nicoles answer, but seriously, most of what you are suggesting needs to start early on in life and our parents have the most dependability in this.  If parents would like children categorically, tell them how wonderful they are, hug them, give them the attention they need, etc., it would be wonderful and self-admire would already be built and there would be few insecurities.  Since this seldom happens it would help if we, as a society, would support others, care about them, be there when needed, give positive feedback, etc.  Many habits and customs would need to change to have this happen.  It doesn&#8217;t hurt for just the few who are enlightened to take this upon themselves when they can.  Every small bit helps.</p>
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		<title>By: lovely_lightskin</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Mar 2010 21:16:32 +0000</pubDate>
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well I dont know you so I dont know what kind of person you are but what I do know is that people have too want to have happier lives and they should find a selfhelp books!!!!!!!</description>
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<p>well I dont know you so I dont know what kind of person you are but what I do know is that public have too want to have more pleased lives and they should find a selfhelp books!!!!!!!</p>
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		<title>By: terryandadriana</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Mar 2010 06:22:06 +0000</pubDate>
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I think this is the best question I&#039;ve seen asked on this site, and I think the answer to this question, for each person, lies within that person.  We can encourage self-reflection and positive attitudes, but in order to be truly happy and confident in yourself, you have to really know yourself, and everything to do that is in your head.</description>
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<p>I reckon this is the best question I&#8217;ve seen questioned on this site, and I reckon the answer to this question, for each person, lies surrounded by that person.  We can promote self-reflection and positive attitudes, but in order to be truly pleased and confident in yourself, you have to really know yourself, and everything to do that is in your head.</p>
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		<title>By: Fuel632</title>
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		<dc:creator>Fuel632</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 20:57:26 +0000</pubDate>
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The only way I see that happening is to take them out of this prejudicial world and then everything would fall into place. Life ***** but it takes Visa. Peace</description>
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<p>The only way I see that happening is to take them out of this prejudicial world and then everything would fall into place. Life ***** but it takes Visa. Peace</p>
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		<title>By: goodworksgal2006</title>
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		<dc:creator>goodworksgal2006</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 06:18:54 +0000</pubDate>
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I believe if we all focus on the inside feelings of others, rather than exterior appearance, that will be a giant step in the right direction.  So much is about what people look like, which isn&#039;t equitable.  Insecurities are based on our perceptions of what others think about ourselves.  We can praise each other more often, and ridicule less.  Happiness is something that should come from within.  Only we have the power to make ourselves happy.</description>
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<p>I believe if we all focus on the inside feelings of others, rather than exterior appearance, that will be a giant step in the right direction.  So much is about what public look like, which isn&#8217;t just.  Insecurities are based on our perceptions of what others reckon about ourselves.  We can praise each other more often, and ridicule less.  Happiness is something that should come from surrounded by.  Only we have the power to make ourselves pleased.</p>
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		<title>By: tym v</title>
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		<dc:creator>tym v</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 15:06:39 +0000</pubDate>
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Believe in then and enrich them in the belief of them self.</description>
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<p>Believe in then and enrich them in the belief of them self.</p>
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		<title>By: Nicole</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nicole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 02 Mar 2010 11:27:05 +0000</pubDate>
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Kill Paris Hilton.</description>
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<p>Kill Paris Hilton.</p>
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