How can I boost my self-esteem and self-confidence?
March 8th, 2010 | 
Author: 
Ms. **** Business 
qυеѕtіοnеd:
OK ѕο I hаνе a low self-admire аnd self confidence аnd I believe I’m hіdеουѕ аnd worthless аnd I really don’t want tο ѕtаrt cutting tο nοt remember аbουt mу problems fοr a few seconds bυt I јυѕt mіght іf thеrе іѕ nο way thаt I саn gеt over mу issues аnd аlѕο I hаνе hаd problems wіth mу family аnd friends. Whаt іѕ a way thаt I саn overcome mу low self-admire аnd self confidence issues without аnу therapists?
qυеѕtіοnеd: OK ѕο I hаνе a low self-admire аnd self confidence аnd I believe I’m hіdеουѕ аnd worthless аnd I really don’t want tο ѕtаrt cutting tο nοt remember аbουt mу problems fοr a few seconds bυt I јυѕt mіght іf thеrе іѕ nο way thаt I саn gеt over mу issues аnd аlѕο I hаνе hаd problems wіth mу family аnd friends. Whаt іѕ a way thаt I саn overcome mу low self-admire аnd self confidence issues without аnу therapists?
Posted in overcoming self esteem | 
Tags: Confidence Issues, Family And Friends, low self esteem, Self Confidence, Ugly
i say write about what ever is bother you thats what worked for me
get a fancy haircut geta makeover question public if ur hot… go out to clubs and let guys hit on you
know that God produced you just the way you are and he likes you and thinks you are gorgeous. well he doesn’t THINK you’re gorgeous. he KNOWS you are. no matter what anyone — or even yourself says otherwise.
your name on here is mrs **** missing confidence I reckon not
I use to have confidence issues when I was younger. I was going through a rough time. Had friend issues, was taller than all else, and was a small chubby. I met my husband and he really turned my life around. Some of the things he made me do to cheer myself up was to go to a solon and get my hair cut, and then get my nails done. Then go shoping for something cute and stelleto heals (mind you i’m 6ft tall lol) and then go and get my make up done. Then he took me dancing, lol I felt like the queen of the ball. Now that I feel better about my looks, I’ve been noticing other guys giving me “the eye” lol. I reckon they always were, I was just too upset with myself to even realise it. Excellent luck hun, a small shopping makes all feel better =)
hahahah i aagree with josh!!!!
FIRST, try and remove useless and irresponsible jargon like BOOST.
Your ago is something that can suffer from a boost, and not your self-admire.
a monk questioned his maser whats the meaning of life, and the master questioned him what he had for breakfast, and he answered “a bolied egg” the master answered ” THEN WASH THE SAUCEPAN”
continuity builds self admire.
honesty builds self estem
not accepting unnaceptable behaviour builds self admire
and so on.
keep asj=king until you hear the right things
i was chanting jargon like self admire and it took me nine years tounderstand what it nreally meant for me.
i am a slow learner, and have to learn to accept and like myself for who i am , and i strive to do better.
Okay let me try to help you with my answer. It has helped a lot of public who questioned this same question;
Okay to start off with construction self-confidence in yourself and to be around public see this;
We are all human and we ALL have excellent and terrible qualities. There is no existing human that is perfect. We are all ordinary and equal. Our skin holds our flesh and bones collectively, we have a brain, heart, liver, lung, ears, nose, mouth. What makes us different from each other really? In reality we are all equal and the same.
Now when your in a fearful situation such as being around public, well I want you to imagine every negative or positive outcome that may happen to you when your in a fearful situation and just “let it happen” instead of “preventing” it. When you try to prevent these outcomes made up in your mind, you make a barrier of dread, which makes your body turn tensed and rigid. Reckon about this though has dread ever benefited you in your whole life? Or has it instead made your situation worse by making your body turn tensed and rigid?
You are human, you are certainly going to die in this lifetime and so is all else. So “try” to “delight in” every moment you can living, instead of living in “dread”. You can possibly die next week, next month or maybe in the next 2 years.
Now you say you want to make friends right?
Well go and just talk to public! How?
“You won’t know until you try”
“Don’t skepticism, attempt, make mistakes, learn, go forward, live”
You won’t know if a person you want to be friends with will be able to tell with you and would hang out with you until you yourself start talking to them in a friendly manner. Holding a choice is like making a delay, does it ever help? Don’t be worried to make mistakes, humans make mistakes ALL the time, but what is vital is that we “recognize” our mistake, “learn” from our mistake, and try to “avoid” doing it in the future.
Also if you want public to treat with well and with respect then you must also treat EVERYONE well and respectful.
” Treat others how you want them to treat you ”
” Whatever you do goes back to you ”
I am referring to karma.
If you treat a certain person terribly, then you will get back the same treatment and it does not have to be from the same person you treated terribly. So remember to treat all well ( that’s if you want the same treatment, which I’m sure you do). I’m not telling you to live your life at all, I’m just telling you the laws of karma, the laws of living.
***After I’ve done all of this to have more confidence in myself, there was still something missing and it was not loving myself. I couldn’t fully tell to public on how they might reckon of me, so what I had to do first was like myself in order to like others.
You hear this once and you’ll hear it again and its right;
” In order to like others you must first like yourself ”
So everyday when you wake up remember to like yourself to get yourself through the day.
Don’t be apprehensive if you don’t “receive” like since that does not bring you right happiness, “giving” like brings more happiness than receiving for “ones own”. But remember in order to give like you most first like yourself since there must be a root that the like must start from, which is yourself, and then it grows and spreads onto others like a tree.
So in your case don’t worry if public don’t like you back, just remember what will truly make you pleased and get you through a day is if you like yourself and like others, no need to receive as long as were giving, this is the formula of happiness.
The only like one needs in this world is oneself, the rest are just a bonus. After one has the like for oneself THEN one can truly share it with others.
I only have 4 excellent friends, 3 girls, and only 1 boy, and I have had 0 girlfriends in my 15 years of life. Some public call me *** all the time just since I don’t like the boys locker room and I **** sports except for swimming and shooting, and Im only excellent at those 2 sports, which shooting is not a school sport and Swimming is embarassing since Im apprehensive about myself looking like a stout pig. My family grounds me from EVERYTHING all the time and I can’t even get on myspace to chat with public who I just like to talk to. I have cut my wrist before, it was a deep cut and I nearly cut a vein. I have nearly jabbed a filet knife into my heart on purpose, I have wanted to end my life since No one liked me, I was lame, I had no girlfriend, and I have no real goal worth achieving in life.
And you say you have problems?
Start looking at couples when you are out and about. Look at the women. I reckon you will find that you would deliberate many to not be very attractive. Yet they are with a man who likes them. There are many guys who want to hang out with you. If you want Mr. Perfect then your low self admire is based on unrealistic expectations. If you are looking for Mr. Niceguy, you will easily find him. Relationships are about who you are, not what you look like.
Dont do that crazy material. If you reckon you hideous, then just tell yourself everyday that you are gorgeous and you should never try to harm yourself in anyway.