Q&A: Will I attract more people when I overcome my very low self confidence and self esteem?
August 31st, 2010 | 
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Qυеѕtіοn bу Jack (Catholicism іѕ thе Truth): Wіll I pull towards уου more public whеn I overcome mу very low self confidence аnd self admire?
Sіnсе I know thаt I hаνе many ехсеllеnt qualities аnd wουld mаkе a ехсеllеnt friend, аnd hаνе thе potential tο socialize. Dο уου rесkοn mу really low self admire hаѕ bееn visible tο public аnd bееn a turnoff? I’m 17 bу thе way.
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Yes, u wіll. And yes уουr low self admire сουld very well repel public.
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Yes. It’s all about confidence.
Exactly like if you smile at a weirder along the park, there is more opportunity of being smiled back at.
Your age must be picture of a pleased and carefree soul.
Not only will you pull towards you more public, but you will pull towards you public with high confidence and self admire, just like yourself.
i like that, potential to socialize … not my cup of tea on a fixed basis, only with excellent friends and theyre sparse .. if you have low self admire do somthing that you like and get excellent at it and dont worry about everything else it will fall into place …
I bet you do have fantastic qualities. If you overcome your low self admire it will be simpler to see whats fantastic about you.
Let me make a suggestion. Read the book “Brainswitching Out of Depression” by A.B. Curtiss. It is geared towards depression, but it applies to social anxiety and low self-confidence as well.
You can probably find it at the library. If not, you can get it at Amazon.com, Barnes and Noble, or similar stores.
Also, here is a message forum for public with social anxiety:
http://www.socialanxietysupport.com/forum/
All i need to say is:
Believe in your self and others WILL believe in you.
Low self admire means you skepticism yourself so others will skepticism you to.
You don’t have to be the smartest,most amusing or most handsom person to be charismatic.Just believe in yourself and never have FUD (Dread, Skepticism and Uncertainty) in social situations.
Absolutely. And your self-admire will start to grow soon, all by itself. It’s all part of the fantastic hormonal adventure of adolescence. It’s behind you long before the best part of life starts!
Of course you will. And the best way to overcome your shyness is to socialize. It may seem hard at first, but keep trying, and you’ll get better at it. Try joining some groups or clubs in your area that have public who share interests similar to yours. And remember: EVERYONE has personal insecurities, no matter how confident they may appear. I wish you the best of luck!