How to help someone with low self esteem?
June 27th, 2010 | 
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Qυеѕtіοn bу jarielt87: Hοw tο hеlр someone wіth low self admire?
Hοw аm I supposed tο hеlр thіѕ person wіth low self admire thаt іѕ always fishing fοr compliments. I don’t want tο keep saying thаt thеу look ехсеllеnt over аnd over bυt I don’t want thеіr self admire аnd confidence tο gеt worse.
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Constantly complimenting someone саn bе awkward, bυt sometimes thеу mіght really need іt.
Invite thеm places wіth уου аnd mаkе sure thеу’re included. It mіght seem lіkе babysitting, bυt thеу’ll gеt over іt іf thеу саn јυѕt feel wanted.
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I have shitty self admire but if the person is really needy ditch!
… Kinda a dick go but the weak just weigh us down!
I wish you had more details, like male or female, etc. If they really do have self-admire problems, instead of waiting for them to hint at it (assuming thats what they’re doing, when I call myself stout, I’m not doing it to make anyone say you’re skinny, since im not) go out of your way to compliment them. If its a girl, take her out for a girls day. Maybe go shopping with her or give her a small make-over. I know it seems kind of silly, but girls and women of all ages do delight in trying a change. Paint nails, do makeup, dye her hair, etc. If its not so much about that, like maybe its about consequence or something, try going running with that person, as even if you are not personally apprehensive about your consequence, there can’t be too much harm in spending a few minutes a day jogging with a friend
Anyways, to summarize
1. Compliment the person
2. try to provide a non-invasive key
3. Do material collectively
This is of course assuming you guys are that close. But anyways, it might be worth a shot anyways.
Best of luck!
Self admire/confidence is addressed in section 38, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris Some advice, and options: Volunteer, even from home, at first, to provide a solid basis in reality for the daily affirmations: “I am a excellent person, who is valued by my community, since I… (insert activity here)..”. Section 47 also refers. On volunteering further than the home, you will come into contact with supportive public, and receive positive feedback for your efforts, which will be obviously appreciated; there are many options; one is sure to suit you. I have recently encountered another opinion, but, which is that, just as it is vital to build a house on a solid foundation, so it is with self admire. Learn to forgive yourself for your past mistakes, and failures, or inadequacies.
Accept that you, too are just a human being, with the frailties, insecurities, and tendency to err, occasionally, that the rest of us have. That is the beginning of self like, self acceptance, and self admire. Regularly monitor your internal monologue (self talk): write down the negative ones: “I’m really hideous” and then the converse: “I’m honestly excellent looking”, and next time you become aware that you are thinking the former, visualise, as acutely as possible, a huge “STOP!!!” sign, and/or a stern faced person wagging a finger at you, and deliberately repeat 5 times, either aloud, in a huge voice, if alone, or subvocally (to yourself, in your mind), the converse affirmation. Some public go so far as to keep a wide rubber band in their pocket, then place it around their wrist, when they catch themselves backsliding, stretch and release it, as a method of reprogramming their mind quicker, but I don’t regard it as being strictly necessary.
Habits take about 30 – 40 repetitions to become established, with most public. Make a list of all your excellent points, strengths, and achievements. Place it everyplace so you can easily refer to it, from time to time; perhaps on the refrigerator door, or print it; (large typeface, or capitalise) have it framed, and place in your bedroom, or in a position of eminence, such as on the television, or lounge room wall. Practise one of the repose methods in sections 11, 2, 2c, or 2i, daily, and when needed. Also, give the EFT a excellent tryout, to see if it helps you. Section 53 at ezy-build also refer. “Even though I sometimes have low self admire/self confidence, I deeply and completely accept myself”.