How do you help someone with low self esteem?
October 31st, 2009 | 
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lotsofcoffee qυеѕtіοnеd:
Thіѕ person hаѕ distanced herself frοm family (over several years), hеr husband (thеу аrе separated) аnd hіѕ family аnd many friends аnd blames others fοr hеr problems. Including a husband whο (ѕhе ѕауѕ) cant dο anything rіght. Shе hаѕ continued cosmetic surgery over thе past five years ****** reduction, consequence, аnd tucks, finding fault іn hеr looks. On thе contrary ѕhе іѕ extremely attractive аnd intelligent. Hеr low self admire hаѕ manifest itself nearly іntο a fаkе conceit, οr maybe a fаkе confidence. Hοw dο уου gеt someone hеlр οr саn top thеѕе things out.
Thіѕ person hаѕ distanced herself frοm family (over several years), hеr husband (thеу аrе separated) аnd hіѕ family аnd many friends аnd blames others fοr hеr problems. Including a husband whο (ѕhе ѕауѕ) cant dο anything rіght. Shе hаѕ continued cosmetic surgery over thе past five years ****** reduction, consequence, аnd tucks, finding fault іn hеr looks. On thе contrary ѕhе іѕ extremely attractive аnd intelligent. Hеr low self admire hаѕ manifest itself nearly іntο a fаkе conceit, οr maybe a fаkе confidence. Hοw dο уου gеt someone hеlр οr саn top thеѕе things out.
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Tags: Contrary, Cosmetic Surgery, False Conceit, False Confidence, low self esteem
Kill them with compliments!
You can’t. Ignore her and see how she does on her own.
Make her see her excellent side. Always admire and pay attention to it.
Search why she can have this low self admire. Let her know and overcome it with her self.
You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.
“Helping” her is hurting her. Your enemies tell you most about yourself. Helping means reinforcing the thought that she is terrible. You shouldn’t (in my opinion) go from “terrible” to “excellent”, but from “terrible” to “where am I?”
Assuming that you are headed everyplace is the first step in the incorrect direction. It’s a problem to key society, and I reckon it should be more of a problem to why do I take upon yourself this is a problem kind of society.
I seriously **** it when gorgeous or attractive public have low self-admire. That really irritates me.
Anyway, the person that you are talking about sounds like she will have to work this one out on her own. You can probably alacrity this up if you compliment her often, but not too much, and show her how much you care about her like by taking her out to eat or asking her if she want to do something else fun with her.
By loving and caring for them and you could share your thoughts about their low self-admire.
Your concern is very touching. I would be interested to know what your relationship is to the woman (girlfriend or wanna be boyfriend) and the only reason I question is since your approach to her would be different depending on your role. I included two links you can look them over and refer them to her, or you can take the info to heart and help integrate it to her situation.
I wish you the best of luck. Here is a brief tidbit about the links I am referring you to.
FIRST one: Review of past mistakes, reclaim your self-control, draw collectively physical strength, and make a plot. These thoughts were taken from the first link not more than – but they make a lot of sense if you reckon about it. Admit acknowledge the mistakes (don’t assign or accept blame for them) — place yourself (or HER) back in the drivers seat (let her make decisions for herself based on her needs/wants) — become physically fit in mind, body, and soul — meaning eat excellent, exercise, go water, pamper herself etc…. and finally make a plot on what she wants her OUTCOMES to be, and what SHE NEEDS to do to make the outcomes a reality. Be there for her and support her, but do not make the decisions for her – give her both pros and cons if she questions your opinion. She needs to be in charge of her life.
The second link is a legislative publication (an ebook) from Health/Human Svc. Mental Health Dept. it has a ton of in rank.