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Answer by dark angel
Because it leads to depression and makes you feel really bad.

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All my life I’ve been shy and sensitive. I also have a low self-esteem. I’m able to talk with my family and the few friends that I have. It’s hard for me to make friends. I don’t talk much until I get to know someone better. I haven’t been on a date or been able to ask someone out due to my shyness. For example in grade school I had a crush on someone. I did nothing about it and we lost connection. We then became friends again and after tons of advice I was gonna try to ask her out. I found out she is in a serious relationship. I moved on as I am not the type to ruin relationships. I am also shy in thinking I am too thin and in need of more muscle (arms, chest, stomach). I’m self-conscious of my body. In gym class I’d always change in the stall vs with all the other guys. Fully-clothed in public always. Also I blush easily.

How do I beat this shyness, low self-esteem, and self consciousness?

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Justin (22)
I also worry a lot and over think things. I’d have thoughts playing in my head again and again and then I never actually say it. I fear that if I say something it’ll seem stupid or cause others to be annoyed/angry/make fun of me. I haven’t had the greatest history when it comes to having friends. All throughout grade school I was ignored and my former classmates talked amongst themselves and acted cliquish. When I did have attention on me it lasted for a few seconds. Also doing presentations for class frightened me. I’d do them but I’d be nervous and sweat. When going to parties and stuff I usually sit around feeling bored and lonely as I don’t usually know anyone. I can’t initiate conversations due to my shyness either. Plus, who can talk over the loud music? Hehe. In classes I never speak up unless I am called on and then I say little wishing for the spotlight to be put on someone else.
I’m the kind of guy that tries to be a gentleman. I have a pretty good sense of humour too I’ve been told. I believe you should treat others how you want to be treated. Also honesty is the best policy …and liar liar pants on fire. I am not the kind of guy that would cheat on any relationship. I don’t drink, smoke, or do drugs. I can also be very open (if I was not uncomfortable or shy) …as I can tell you anything easily via typing. Modest and humble …I don’t know …as I’ve just said a mouthful about myself. But I do not mean to seem like I am showing off or something as that was not my intention. (<-me over thinking now). Sorry.

Just telling a bit about myself if it helps with your answering.
I might add that I am not completely skinny. I'm about 5'9-5'10 and 130 lbs.

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Answer by proudpreemieparents
Volunteer! Nothing helps shyness and low self-esteem more than helping others. Go to a homeless shelter and feed the hungry, volunteer your time at a nursing home by providing entertainment or see if they need help with activities for the residents that live there, help an elderly neighbor with her yardwork or get groceries for her. Not only will it improve your self-esteem, but if you do it enough it will get out in the community on what a good-willed person that you are.

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Olivia Stefanino, Author, Speaker & Coach provides an overview of her powerful process to overcoming emotional issues that can be the cause of poor health, low self-esteem, low confidence, relationship breakdowns, poor performance at work and a multitude of other negative influences. It’s time to let go of the past and move on.

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Self confidence and self esteem must come from within yourself. This video looks at three key tips that will help you to develop a higher level of positive self esteem.

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This video examines how you can develop your self esteem. The video looks at a key relationship that you need to develop in order to promote you self esteem.
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www.theconfidencesite.com If you need self esteem help and advice this video gives brief insight into having a positive outlook. To build self esteem you will need to change how you look at the world around you. Visit my blog at confidenceguy.wordpress.com
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Question by Jack (Catholicism is the Truth): Will I attract more people when I overcome my very low self confidence and self esteem?
Because I know that I have many good qualities and would make a good friend, and have the potential to socialize. Do you think my really low self esteem has been visible to people and been a turnoff? I’m 17 by the way.

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Answer by Andrew Clements
Yes, u will. And yes your low self esteem could very well repel people.

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